You deserve to live life unabashed
Hear what my clients are experiencing after saying “Yes!” to my support to create their unique Unabashed Badassery…
A safe place to grow Monica Jayne is a compassionately fierce mentor who I confidently know has my back and sets the example of how to have my own back, as well. Because she actively practices what she teaches, it allows others to express themselves freely and see how communication skills, boundary setting, self-care and self-love apply in real life. By encouraging playfulness, that nurtures curiosity and exploration, she generates ease-ful authentic participation. Monica Jayne’s mindful honesty establishes trust in the mentor-student relationship. Since Monica Jayne is unabashedly herself, it creates a safe space for us to be unabashedly us.
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Specific Client Results
Transforming unfulfilled folx into Unabashed Badasses!
Ready to become one too?
Inspired to Be a Badass
John Mermin | Regional Planner | Oregon, USA
John was feeling stuck and unable to ask for his needs to be met before we started working together. During his mentorship with me, he learned how his body is wired to receive pleasure and how to meet and amplify his erotic potential. He became empowered in his communication to speak his needs clearly and implemented various embodiment practices to awaken his body. Now he is confident and self-assured and feeling orgasmic pleasure all day! John is basking in his life force energy and he now speaks his truth like the badass that he is!
Profoundly Awakening
Lacey Dupre | Money Mindset Coach | Texas, USA
It didn’t take long for Lacey to realize the well of held emotions she was holding once I was there holding immaculate space for all of stuff to come to the surface. She awakened profoundly during our experience together and continues to feel the effects of it “everyday” to this day.
A new world of eroticism discovered a part of myself that had lain dormant until I began working with Monica Jayne. A whole new world has opened up to me as I learn about my eroticism and how to nourish and honour that part of myself in my day to day life.
Could not get enough of Monica Jayne I so thoroughly enjoyed working with Monica Jayne. It all started out by going to one of her free classes and her offering a free session. After the session I felt compelled to go forward and work with her on an issue that I was having, I'm not feeling worthy. I felt very drawn to working with Monica Jayne after hearing her life story so it made me feel very comfortable to work with her and it was such a joy to work with Monica Jayne. She’s easy to talk to and listens very thoroughly. I totally recommend people to work with her.
Ready to keep learning Monica Jayne was really funny and explained a lot of really interesting things that I’m still mulling over! Definitely want to learn more!
Thank you for validating my desires Hearing you talk so nonchalantly about sex opened my mind greatly. Something that has been so taboo in my life was all the sudden ok to talk about, experience, and share my thoughts about it with others without feeling like a weirdo.
I was able to open up a conversation with others. I can communicate better what I need to be happy without feeling afraid.
Knowing my arousal type has taught me what I need in life to be happy, how to let go of the shame society puts on me, and to accept what I like and what I want. And to stop judging myself, my tastes and needs has been the hardest lesson that I have had to learn in my lifetime.
Thank you, Monica Jayne.
Grateful for the Erotic Blueprints Monica Jayne did a great job of introducing the erotic blueprints and the enthusiasm and empowerment they have brought to her life! I am grateful that the blueprints have been developed and am curious about using them for more perspective on my erotic nature. With our time together and the included phone session, this class is hugely worth the cost! 😁
Ceased Seeking External Validation
Melissa Petterson | Jewelry Maker | California, USA
This is a segment from a long interview with Melissa. In our work together, Melissa really claimed her sovereignty and autonomy for the first time as a 30-something year-old adult woman. She shares about specific types of exercises and processes that I offer in my coaching, and how they affected her life to get herself back in the driver’s seat. Listen in and enjoy!
Owning Her Pleasure and Eroticism
Julianne Vacaro | Somatic Sexologist | Colorado, USA
Before working with me, Julianne was struggling with expressing her eroticism. I met her where she was and guided her on how to take more self-responsibility rather than feel paralyzed and not knowing how to move forward. Now she has made shifts and impacted her sexuality to feel free to express herself and her most innocent desires with confidence and clarity.
Communication goes a long way
I attended your class three days ago. Last night my partner and I had the best sex we’ve had in a long time. It was like the sex we had when we first started dating.
In your class you demonstrated the energetic touch and it lit me up! I realized
I’d been missing that. I was starving for it. My energetic eroticism was depleted. So I was able to ask for that from my partner. He did an amazing job because I had the vocabulary and demonstration skills to ask for what I wanted.
Esmeralda
Workshop participant | Nevada, USA
Consent felt empowering
I appreciated the consent piece where we ask permission to add our thoughts or reflect after someone’s share.
It felt safe and empowered and reassuring that what I was saying wanted to be heard by others. I liked this type of communication. It helps me open up more.
Anonymous
Overcoming a cloud of shame
My biggest outcome is that I am now comfortable talking about and exploring sex and intimacy. Before working with you it was as though there was a cloud of shame interfering with everything having to do with sex… this cloud has dissipated!
Before we started working together I thought I was experiencing a trauma response when my husband would try to be intimate with me. He would go from 0 to 100 in seconds and my body shut down. Turns out it wasn’t a trauma response at all, I’m just energetic! I thought being raped had forever ruined my sex life and it “broke” my body in some way. I am so happy to know that that jerk did not take this from me. I am totally normal and can have a fun and exciting sex life. My body just needs time to get to 100!
Chelsea A.
Marriage and Family Therapist | Colorado, USA
An honor and privilege
I felt you in the ethers this morning, and felt called to reach out to express my gratitude once again for you and this connection. In your presence I experience a powerful sense of safety and home in the whole and healed sense; warmth, love, connection and honour. Thank you for being… It was an honour and privilege to experience this soul reunion. You’re amazing, Monica Jayne.
Ashanti
Nomad | Everywhere
Transforming unfulfilled folx into Unabashed Badasses!
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Steps towards sexual and personal evolvement This class was awesome! This work is greatly needed in this society and I think this area is a great place to plant seeds and watch our world grow into a more sexually and personally evolved place. ❤️
Such a wonderful container I felt 110% comfortable last month sharing openly and really appreciated that everyone else was also trusting and open. Such a wonderful space you provide to share with others about “taboo” subjects and in such a welcoming manner.
Dyad exploration The most valuable exercise you and I did was the dyad of what it would be like as a 50 year old trans woman.
Giving others permission to live unabashed Monica Jayne, I will never forget you totally going wild at a retreat, being yourself unashamedly, messily, uniquely, beautifully you. By showing that you gave the entire room permission to all be themselves and it cut through so many hang ups the other women in the room had. You also have the quirkiest sense of humour. You are badass and sweet at the same time. You taught me about little gifts of appreciation and how much happiness they give to the receiver.
More than surface level I experienced some of the best, open and real conversations in my life by attending Monica’s events.
“Note-taking award" Monica Jayne, FYI, you won the “note-taking award” with me at the last meeting. There is so much to share and to know about these topics I'm hoping that we can gather more people/groups/cliques into the conversation.
Matthew Christopher Embrey-mcclain
Shamanic Happiness Coach
Honoring boundaries One of the biggest impacts I have experienced while working with Monica Jayne is the realization and development of my ability to honour and flow in my body while confidently setting boundaries and finding my voice to respectfully speak my needs in my day to day interactions with my spouse, my loved ones and in the world beyond.
Monica Jayne brings elevated conversation Exceptional! Exceptional! Exceptional! Thank you!! You brought concise, intelligent and elevated conversation that could have a positive effect on so many. It sure did on me. I felt your powerful message and presence, it affected me on a deep level. Merci.
Deeper Self-Love and Having My Own Back
Jake Brannemeng | Solar Foreman | Nevada, USA
This is a segment from a long interview with Jake and his wife Shanni. Jake shares what he gained in our time together: more confidence, having my own back, better communication, boundaries, being grounded. He now has a deeper, more open connection with his wife and speaks truth confidently. It was beautiful to work with them as a couple as well as with each of them as individuals – this is my favorite way to work with couples.
Becoming Self-Validating
Tyler B. | Construction | Nevada, USA
This is a video update between sessions from Tyler. He was dealing with getting his worth solely from the outside world – the beast most of us deal with, the need for external validation. After our session for the first time in a long time Tyler felt his own pride in himself returning and this increased his happiness and positively affected his connection and relationships with his children and partner. For more between-session-update video from Tyler and another client, Richone, scroll near the bottom of the page.
Personal Strength and Reconciling Relationships
Melissa Petterson | Jewelry Maker | California, USA
This is a segment of an interview with my client Melissa. She shares here why she was able to reconcile her relationship, learn to set boundaries, and also to “grow up” in her work with me. It’s a fun segment! Have a look…
Transforming unfulfilled folx into Unabashed Badasses!
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I was in Denial
Richone C. | Holistic Wellness | Nevada, USA
This is a video update between sessions from Richone. In our session she felt me all her forward and hold space for her to take responsibility for hiding behind denial. Overcoming this she feels more raw and real with others and is creating greater connections with others through honesty and openness.
Anger Managed
Tyler B. | Construction | Nevada, USA
This is a video update between sessions from Tyler. He was dealing with anger issues taking over his experiences and relationships. The root was a connection to his parents. We processed that and anger no longer controlled his life experiences.
Unsure to Sure
Tyler B. | Construction | Nevada, USA
This is a video update between sessions from Tyler. In our session Tyler learned that fear had been taking over his ability to trust others and that he didn’t have to allow it to do that anymore.
No Longer Driven by Fear
Richone C. | Holistic Wellness | Nevada, USA
This is a video update between sessions from Richone. Before she decided to work with me she felt a haunting darkness permeated her life experience since childhood. The process I facilitated for her allowed her to stop living from fear and instead, be driven by her joys and her goals. She experiences great freedom having this darkness lifted from her life experience and stepping into the light.
Healed My Relationships with Men
Shannon Brannemeng | RN | Nevada, USA
This is a segment from a long interview with Shanni and her husband Jake. Shanni shares what she gained in our time together: Say no when needed. Identifying boundaries. Healed her relationship to men and her anger with them. Huge shift to see the magnificence of men and a softness from her toward them. Not wasting energy anymore. It was beautiful to work with them as a couple as well as with each of them as individuals – this is my favorite way to work with couples.
Recognizing the mirrors in others Monica Jayne thank you so much for providing multiple venues in which people can learn the skills of how to communicate. Some of the things I've found very striking in your events are that as I ingest things and am ruminating, it very clearly holds a mirror up in front of my face, for me to see positive and negative ways I interact with people. Last night allowed me to see some of the not-so-pretty ways I interact with people and see coping mechanisms I have used in the past to adapt or survive prior programming. Sometimes, I get so caught up in being HEARD I can't HEAR others no, whether overt or passive. That was a really striking lesson for me. I always try to ask myself, "does this reaction serve my highest purpose or goals in life?!" And, sometimes I forget, or assume I am asking that, but then rush ahead in quest to be HEARD. Seeing the light wasn't comfortable in the glare, but it was necessary. Thank you <3
Reaching new levels of comfort I have a new comfort level to speak in a sexual nature with my partner. Along with a renewed sense of confidence in my ability to please them. I realized that there is nothing wrong with me. What I want, how I feel, and what I choose to do is right for me. It is nothing for me to be ashamed of.
Containers allow for authenticity Your event was a lot of fun last night, Monica Jayne. I really appreciate the comfortable environments you create and the openness it fosters. Thank you.
What people are saying about Monica Jayne’s speaking and facilitation
Monica Jayne is a wonder on stage Monica Jayne is a true joy and wonder to have on our stage. She brightens the audience with a contagious abundance of energy and can also ground with the depth of information she delights them with. If you want a dynamic speaker that can light up any room and provide your audience with a wealth of wisdom, Monica Jayne is one of the best.
Monica Jayne offers a vibrant and unique voice Monica Jayne has been a valued speaker on several of my virtual events. She brings a vibrant and unique voice while holding an honoring space for other’s perspectives. My participants always gain such value from her experience and expert savvy. There will always be a space for Monica Jayne’s unabashed whit, professional and skilled knowledge, and truly caring presence on my InPowered Consent forum.
Monica Jayne makes comfortable the tough topics You were such a badass speaker.
The fact that you were covering those topics at all! Your openness about your personal preferences and lifestyle. And you're approachable, down to earth way of delivering info about stigmatized issues.
Monica Jayne is a great public speaker I wanted to say that you did a great job presenting last week at the forum. You really did a great job as a public speaker and I hope in the future you will have more forums and stages to present like that.
Monica Jayne invokes a deep level of self-inquiry Monica Jayne was a guest teacher for a virtual retreat we hosted during quarantine. She added so much to the weekend and is such a fabulous, engaging facilitator and speaker! She was very professional and strong while simultaneously being so loving and approving. Our group was riveted for the entire 90 minutes and loved the exercises she took us through. Her personal story was powerful and her contribution allowed the students to go to a deeper level of self-inquiry. The participants reported many breakthroughs during and after the session. We would absolutely have her back and highly recommend her work as a powerful addition to any retreat or group program.
Monica Jayne provides useful real-world skills Monica Jayne presents information that acknowledges the difficulty and the nuance involved in any kind of intimate relationship negotiation, but at the same time provides useful real-world skills. She is a polished speaker: articulate and engaging, and real. I cannot recommend her on strong enough terms.
Monica Jayne brings elevated conversation Exceptional! Exceptional! Exceptional! Thank you!! You brought concise, intelligent and elevated conversation that could have a positive effect on so many. It sure did on me. I felt your powerful message and presence, it affected me on a deep level. Merci.
Great Space-Holding
Mallory King | Embodiment Practitioner | Nevada, USA
Monica Jayne holds a great container and that is grounded. She presents Agreements that open everyone to share even in the uncomfortable moments and it is beautiful.
Fun Facilitation Creates Openness
Chris Ball | Private Instructor | California, USA
Participants open up because Monica Jayne is a super fun facilitator. The events she holds are super comfortable.
What people are saying about Monica Jayne’s Authentic Relating Games…
New Communication Skills
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Connective Vulnerability
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Comfortable & Safe
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Silly & Enjoyable
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Deeper Connection with Others
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The Games Are Really Well Put Together
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Great for Bonding
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Really Well Facilitated
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We Drop In
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Connect with New People
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Inspires Self-Love
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Transforming unfulfilled folx into Unabashed Badasses!
Ready to become one too?
